I read in a book: love a man who loves you back, treats you well, is wise and progressive, kind, responsible, or at least, loves like a man.
Love is one of the most important things for everyone. Never take love lightly, especially when choosing a man. Don’t be careless. Choosing a man to spend a lifetime with is crucial.
Because it affects your future happiness. If you love the wrong person, the wound left in your life may never heal.
Never let love make you blind, lose your bottom line, give up principles, or lose your judgment because of a man’s sweet words.
Before chasing a man, the most important thing is to see clearly what kind of person he is. Otherwise, all your efforts will be in vain. Not only will you not win his heart, but you will also waste your energy and time.
In matters of love, men and women are different.
Women want a man’s full love, whereas men are different. They only need fifty percent love, the other fifty percent is understanding and knowledge.
Many women have beautiful faces, outstanding figures, and maybe even abilities, but they can’t conquer men. The sole reason is that they offer men one hundred percent love but lack understanding and knowledge.
Men are not like women. They don’t need one hundred percent love. They need a woman’s understanding. But many women fail to grasp this, leading to a failed outcome.
Similarly, men don’t value your appearance. If a man is only attracted to your looks and figure, your love is unlikely to last.
As you age, your appearance will change, but your character and qualities won’t.
So, to keep a man’s heart for a long time, focus on enhancing your value and charm rather than just appearance and makeup.
In fact, a woman’s charm doesn’t solely come from her appearance. The attraction to men is not about how much you sacrifice for them but whether you can enter their hearts.
Saying men are not picky is probably because they can fall in love with a woman who seems ordinary to others. Saying men are picky is because if a woman lacks the spark that attracts him, no matter how beautiful she is, he won’t be moved.
Therefore, if a woman wants to steal a man’s heart, she must show her best side to him.
Understanding His Preferences and Habits
To steal a man’s heart, you must first understand his preferences and habits. If you can’t do this, how will you get a chance to get close to him and enter his life?
You must know what he likes to be able to please him when spending time together. Men fall for this trick.
So, you should find out from his friends what food he likes, what music he enjoys, where he likes to go on holidays, what his hobbies are, etc.
Also, understand his daily habits, his dietary restrictions, etc. Only when you know these can you gradually get closer to him.
In reality, what men care most about is not how much you love him but how well you know him and how you show your care for him in daily interactions.
Therefore, by understanding him deeply, you can attract his attention and make him see you as a suitable life partner.
Giving Him Patient Companionship
Companionship is the most sincere declaration of love. No words can match the warmth conveyed by gentle and patient companionship.
Especially in his difficult and vulnerable moments, your presence conveys the best warmth to him.
At such times, you should be by his side promptly, patiently listening to his thoughts, silently accompanying him, providing a warm support.
Even if you say or do nothing, just sitting beside him, he will feel warm, no longer helpless or desperate.
In the future, when he faces unhappy situations, he will think of you first, wanting to be with you. Gradually, he will rely on you more and be unwilling to leave you.
Showing Your Vulnerability Appropriately to Trigger His Protective Instinct
These days, you often see couples on the street—the guy is over six feet tall while the girl is barely five feet tall, or even shorter, known as the popular “cutest height difference.”
The underlying factor causing this “cutest height difference” in couples is the inherent protective instinct in men.
When men see delicate and petite women, they often show a strong protective instinct. They want to hold the woman tightly, protect her for a lifetime, keep her under their wings safe from any harm.
So, if you occasionally show your vulnerable side in front of him, it can easily trigger his protective instinct. He will want to protect you at all times, not let you get hurt, be your shelter, and live worry-free under his protection.
However, you should also learn to be strong, not depend on men for everything. In times when you need to be tough, never show weakness. This way, you can lighten the man’s burden, and he will cherish you more.
There are no miracles in this world. All happiness is earned through your own efforts.
If a woman wants to steal a man’s heart, gain his unique love, she has to enhance her attractiveness, make him fall for her voluntarily, not by her humble sacrifices and waiting to move him.
First, understand his preferences and daily habits. Secondly, provide him patient companionship, especially during his vulnerable moments. Lastly, appropriately show your vulnerability in front of him to trigger his protective instinct.
By following these three steps, I believe you can quickly conquer his heart.
Of course, these steps must be based on your love for him, wanting a long-lasting relationship with him, not just playing love games.
If a man feels you are just playing tricks on him and not genuinely loving him, he will surely cut you off completely.