Remember: Your parents raised you to cherish yourself, not to let others waste your time. You’re their little treasure, not meant to be squandered by anyone.
Some girls are too moral, always considering unworthy people and things. For example, my friend recently met a man who owns a company on a blind date. He pursued her, but he seemed careless. She found it annoying but still got entangled with him.
Let’s try to understand men’s way of thinking, which can make you feel at ease in relationships.
Before deciding to continue, evaluate if it’s worth it.
Many of my friends, like doctors, teachers, civil servants, and corporate workers, with stable jobs and good communication skills, attract the opposite sex and also unwanted attention.
Some men try to escalate the relationship quickly, like wanting to invite a girl to their place on the second date. If the girl doesn’t agree, they treat her as a girlfriend. The girl should ask herself: Is this the pace I want? Do I know him well? Is he reliable? Does being with him match my future expectations?
If not, there’s no need to waste time. Let the man pursue you while you focus on yourself. Just politely refuse a few times.
Learn from men, be more laid-back.
For instance, when they argue, they sleep it off, prioritize their rest, and hang out with friends without worry.
When the pantry is empty, they wait for you to restock it rather than taking the initiative.
Sometimes, a few words can solve a problem. Don’t burden yourself by being both a mother and a maid, okay?
You must learn to appreciate your man because men want to feel needed, understood, and acknowledged. Using him will make him feel valued by you.
If you don’t know how, scan the QR code at the end of the article for guidance.
Learn from men, be more confident.
Men, facing their crush, will make an effort to pursue her, regardless of the outcome. They will message, ask to meet, and express their desires.
Women, facing men with better conditions, often hesitate due to fear of seeming too eager. Darling, if you want something, take action instead of waiting. Waiting will only result in the man finding someone else.
But how to take the initiative? Act indifferent but speak warmly.
For example, you can mention a good movie for the weekend. What will he think? He’ll likely want to ask you out.
The next day, if you don’t ask him out and go with someone else, if he questions you, say: “Oh, I thought you weren’t interested since you didn’t ask me out.” (Learn to shift blame like men, haha)