True love is like wild grass, enduring harsh conditions over time, but as long as it sees sunlight and rain, it will thrive again. It exudes vitality and grows vigorously, showing a flourishing posture.
Some relationships may fade, but some become stronger.
However, genuine deep emotions cannot be defeated by anything. Middle-aged men’s four behaviors that show deep love for their wives, having more than two, indicate that you are very happy.
During meals, they always share the delicious food with their wives
The love of middle-aged men, beyond passion, lies more in giving warmth and care to their loved ones in the mundane life.
For example, during meals, they can’t help but share the delicious dishes with their wives.
Once, while on a business trip, I encountered a couple who worked in manual labor.
They were dusty and dressed plainly. They ordered one meat dish, one vegetable dish, and two bowls of rice.
The man placed the meat dish in front of his wife, ate his rice, occasionally picking up some vegetables. The wife nudged the meat dish towards the man.
He picked some meat and put it all in his wife’s bowl. He said her constitution was weak, so she should eat more good food to boost her immunity and stay healthy to work more.
The wife murmured softly, “Work more? You did all the hard work on this journey, and you don’t even let me help. We eat together. If you don’t eat, I won’t either.”
This little incident made me feel the beauty of love.
Romance is wasting time eating slowly, drinking tea slowly, walking slowly, and growing old together slowly.
As people reach middle age, they may have heavy responsibilities and most resources at home are given to the elderly and children.
There might not be much that men can give to their wives. They want to share the good food with you and take care of you, even if they hesitate to spend on themselves, they will surely take care of their wives.
When the wife falls ill, they patiently and tenderly take care of her
In middle age, if a man carefully takes care of his wife when she is sick, that is love.
A middle-aged man truly loves a woman, whether she ages or falls seriously ill, in his heart, she is still a treasure.
When she is sick, he will not leave or complain but will protect her and accompany her to the end of life.
The wife has the authority over the household finances, and he never interferes
The more a man loves a woman, the more he entrusts the household finances to his wife.
On one hand, it is trust and respect for her; on the other hand, it is his love for her, enjoying being managed by her, and wanting to give her more security.
What gives a sense of security is not love but favoritism.
The husband entrusts the responsibility of managing the finances to his wife without questioning the details of income and expenses. He believes she can handle the household affairs well and hopes she can take care of herself.
He doesn’t mind his wife buying nice clothes, cosmetics, and hopes she can live a higher quality life. This is a form of love.
The more a man loves his wife, the less he fears her spending money.
Because his focus is not on restricting her spending but on how to earn more money, stabilize the family’s development, and continue to increase the happiness of family members.
In everything, they discuss and respect their wives
Love is respect, and understanding.
If a middle-aged man still loves his wife, in life, no matter what happens, he will want to hear her thoughts.
He will not make decisions alone, but will consult and communicate with his wife.
He hopes his wife understands and participates in all family matters. Because he feels there are no secrets that need to be hidden from his wife.
He loves her, hates to see her wronged, cares about her feelings. So, no matter how small a matter is, he wants to discuss it with his wife, give her the right to participate and decide.
If the wife feels it’s inappropriate or disagrees, the man will reconsider the feasibility of the matter.
Or through communication, find a solution to the problem. The more a man loves his wife, the more he cares about her feelings, respects her opinions. From the bottom of his heart, he respects her.
When a man loves his wife, he instinctively wants to protect her, provide her with more security and respect. He doesn’t allow anyone to bully her or see her being mistreated.
In life, he integrates her into his life. And is willing to take care of her, creating a world for her.
A man will be devoted, able to see only his wife, and his emotions will only be moved by her.
Love may not be grand, but it will always accumulate. It’s a steady stream, walking hand in hand to old age together.