Lev Tolstoy once said, “There are as many hearts as there are people, naturally leading to countless kinds of love.”
Interactions between people can feel like a play, making it hard to find genuine affection.
The person by your side may shower you with sweet words and affection, but when they find someone better, they may treat you like a stranger, with no intimacy left.
Women who are casual about relationships and just playing around exhibit these signs.
Only Interested in Dating, Not Marriage
After his divorce, John started dating a girl, and things heated up quickly.
In less than a month, they were inseparable, deeply in love.
They moved in together, and John’s parents suggested introducing her to the family, but she refused.
She claimed they were just comforting each other emotionally and had no interest in involving families or discussing marriage.
She was only interested in dating, not marriage.
John’s parents advised him to end things with her. At his age, he should find a trustworthy woman to spend the rest of his life with, not waste time and energy on someone treating love like a game.
Women who are casual about relationships refuse to commit, only seeking the romantic aspects of dating.
Love isn’t about molding someone into your ideal partner; it’s about accepting them for who they are and growing together.
If she grows tired of you, she’ll leave without hesitation, seeking passionate love elsewhere.
Being with her, marriage is never on her mind; she avoids any form of responsibility.
Only Takes, Never Gives
A woman’s sincerity in a relationship can often be seen through her attitude towards money.
Casual women feel entitled to spend a man’s money freely.
If, before establishing a relationship, she already shows signs of taking advantage or being insatiable, her feelings towards the man are likely not genuine.
Her emotions are bought with money.
She stays with whoever can satisfy her material desires, prolonging the relationship with them.
Casual women are with you for the money, making their lives easier.
They enjoy the gifts and attention but offer little in return, lacking genuine feelings.
Someone who truly loves you not only refrains from using your money but also cares for you deeply, providing security and sweetness.
Keeping Ambiguous Relationships
In a certain movie, the female lead fails to appreciate her husband’s kindness.
Seeking excitement, she betrays her husband, thinking she won’t get caught.
With a mindset of luck, she continues her misconduct, only to find herself in increasingly difficult situations due to her lack of restraint.
Middle-aged women, if insincere towards you, may claim to like you but will be swayed by younger, charming individuals and anyone who pursues them.
They may even see attracting more men as a sign of their own charm.
In the realm of relationships, casual women never deeply love someone and lack firm beliefs in relationships.
They may overlook the fact that someone is married, disregarding morals and emotions for temporary joy.
Being too casual about relationships only breaks the hearts of those who truly love you, leading them to leave.
Schiller said, “Love’s realm is very narrow, accommodating only two people. If you love multiple people simultaneously, it’s merely a game of emotions, not true love.”
If you fall for a woman who is casual about relationships, no matter how much you show love or give, she will remain inconsistent, always wanting something better.
If a woman’s heart isn’t steadfast, she will only disappoint you repeatedly, causing unbearable pain.
On the journey of life, choose to love someone who genuinely cares for you, a woman who provides you with security. Mutual companionship leads to a more stable life.