Managing a relationship is like playing a game. To excel and win, you often need to master some “techniques” and strategies.
Transitioning from love to marriage requires learning how to nurture the relationship for the long term.
However, many women, in their marriages, use the wrong methods to make men love them more, like blindly obeying or trying too hard to please.
In fact, managing relationships doesn’t require constant pleasing or excessive efforts.
Sometimes, all you need to do is learn how to communicate effectively, and men will love you more.
Women, to make a man love you “irresistibly”: say these “four words” frequently.
To make him contribute more, say: “Well done”
Initially, Dad was terrible at cooking. Every time he cooked, it was either burnt or the seasoning was off.
But Mom always encouraged him, telling him that this time was much better than the last, even though it didn’t look good, the taste was still okay.
This encouragement boosted Dad’s confidence, motivating him to cook diligently every day, putting more effort each time.
Later on, from frying to steaming, Dad could cook different dishes for us every day. I would cheerfully praise him, saying Mom was the reason for his achievements today.
Seeing the family enjoying the meals, Dad felt a great sense of satisfaction.
Women, if you want to make a man love you, learn to evoke his “sense of value.”
For instance, to make him contribute more, frequently tell him these four words: “Well done.”
La Rochefoucauld said: “Praise is a kind of smart and subtle flattery that satisfies both the giver and receiver of praise from different aspects.”
By promptly acknowledging a man’s efforts, women can boost his confidence, encouraging him to continue giving to you.
Even if he doesn’t perform well, show more patience, sincerely praise him, enabling him to see hope and gain motivation.
When men receive recognition and praise, they provide more positive feedback and are more willing to contribute to you.
To make him love you, say: “I love you so much”
In “My Sunshine,” Zhao Mosheng likes He Yichen and pursues him persistently.
To capture his heart, she seizes every opportunity to express her love, showering him with sweet words and demonstrating her deep affection through actions.
For example, she often tells him, “I love you,” “I am destined to be your girlfriend.”
With these words repeated frequently, He Yichen’s cold heart softened, gradually noticing her and becoming curious about her.
Unconsciously, he falls deeply in love with her from the bottom of his heart.
Women, if you want a man to love you “irresistibly,” learn to express your love sincerely.
Expressing love is not solely a man’s right. Nurturing love requires effort from both individuals.
Therefore, women should not be too reserved; clearly articulate your love, express your fondness boldly to him.
If you want a man to know your affection, tell him often: “I love you so much.”
“When I see a deer in the woods, a whale in the sea, and you when I awaken. Tomorrow vivid and specific, with only one you.”
When women express their love sincerely, frequently show appreciation to him, and boldly get closer, men also sense being loved.
Even if men pretend to be composed, appearing indifferent, deep down, their hearts have already opened to you, longing to pull you into their embrace.
To move him, say: “Thank you for your hard work”
Women, if you truly understand a man’s challenges, acknowledge his hardships by saying more often: “Thank you for your hard work.”
Saying “thank you for your hard work” shows care for him and understanding of his efforts.
He will feel that you comprehend how much effort he puts in and how challenging it is for him.
Men work hard outside, striving to earn money, never complaining or showing fatigue. They shoulder everything, silently giving without uttering a word.
However, when women frequently express gratitude, men understand that even the unspoken words are understood and that women empathize with them.
Someone said: “Life needs a grateful heart to create, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish.”
Women, uttering words that show understanding to men, brings them closer, making men more willing to give to women and do more for their families.
When giving becomes willingly, this love will endure longer. Men will love only you and won’t easily change.
Saying “thank you for your hard work” more to men, providing more assistance and support, brings them emotional value, making them enjoy communicating with you and feeling relaxed and comfortable around you.
Love requires nurturing, and women need to actively maintain relationships.
Women, loving someone also means knowing how to ask for things, guiding him to give to you, and feeling the taste of being loved.
In love, don’t be a “great” selfless giver.
Love him, and let him create surprises for you, learn to please you, both can gain more happiness.
When managing love, never put yourself in a lowly position. Let him know what you want, understand how to give, and this love will last long.