There is a saying that describes the male psyche:
“Men are like explorers, always having a strong desire for unknown women, driven by a sense of freshness.”
But in reality, most men who part ways with their wives and be with the third party feel regretful and miserable.
Men who cannot stand the mundane and prioritize novelty over responsibility initially console themselves:
“Not accepting the mundane is the right attitude towards life.”
However, when the novelty fades, what reappears is the dull and trivial routine. They deeply regret and speak out their minds.
Mistreating a Wife Leads to Unfavorable Outcomes
The character Lin Hao’s scumbag behavior in the TV drama “Shining She” made the audience exclaim in disbelief.
In a relationship with Chen Xuanxuan for six to seven years, during this time, he schemed and strategically treated her as a “foolish and wealthy” tool.
Before achieving his goal, he treated Chen Xuanxuan well, taking care of all household chores.
During conflicts, he would apologize proactively, creating an image of an ambitious, capable, and reliable “good husband” and “promising asset.”
However, after securing the position of deputy director through his father-in-law’s connections, his true colors emerged. He started despising his wife in every possible way.
Not only did he betray his wife and arrogantly have affairs, but he also attempted to exploit every bit of his wife’s value without any bottom line.
Not only did he make his wife buy a house and a car, but he also helped his relatives calculate property matters.
After the truth came to light, Chen Xuanxuan quickly distanced herself from him, leaving him with nothing.
As a result, he lost his position as deputy director, and the third party naturally looked down on him, leading to a situation where he lost all his wealth and ended up in jail.
The establishment of a marital relationship requires honesty and respect.
Everything has its consequences. Some men are selfish, mistreat their wives, take others’ efforts for granted, and lack gratitude.
A relationship without gratitude, filled with calculations and inequality, will eventually wither and break apart.
When There is Disharmony at Home, Everything Declines
Those Who Mistreat Their Wives Will Lose Wealth and Face Unfavorable Outcomes
Couples who support each other, show mutual respect, can weather any storm, and jointly manage their marriage.
In happiness and romance, supporting each other and nurturing the relationship will gather good fortune and create a happy future.
The More Capable You Are, the Better You Should Treat Your Wife
A client, once struggling financially, met his ex-wife, who was better off in all aspects.
To support him, she took on household chores, childcare, and caring for the elderly, allowing him to focus on his career without worries.
Over the years, as he progressed in his career and became a small leader, he began to feel dissatisfied with his wife:
“She doesn’t want the clothes I buy for her, always saying it hinders taking care of the elderly.”
“Sometimes I have social engagements, but now she seems like an old woman, not someone to take out.”
“When I come home, it’s a mess, and we have no common topics. I just don’t want to go home.”
Later, due to work, he interacted more with a female colleague who was equally competent in appearance.
Compared to his “no longer matching” ex-wife, he enjoyed conversations with this new acquaintance.
Not only did they have many common topics, but the admiration and adoration in the eyes of the female colleague satisfied his vanity.
Interactions increased, leading him to cross boundaries and get deeper into the affair.
However, after marrying his new wife, the client realized she was not as ideal as he thought.
She maintained improper relationships with several men before and after marriage, showing indifference to his concerns and advice.
This left the client feeling distressed and ashamed, unable to change the situation, as it was entirely of his own making.
There is a saying:”In a loving marriage, gratitude comes before love.
Only by appreciating the goodness of the other person will you love them more.”
Men with less capability tend to be overly self-assured, looking down on a simple life.
Unbeknownst to them, it is their wife’s increasing exhaustion that allows them to live “without constraints.”
Men with capabilities, possessing a sense of morality and responsibility, recognize and appreciate their partner’s efforts, naturally cherishing and treating their wives well.
Couples who understand respect, praise, and gratitude can build a good relationship and write a happy marriage together.
The Important Investment in Life: Treating Your Wife Well
A friend’s uncle was a complete scumbag:
Betraying his marriage, abusing his wife, and venting his anger at home for any work-related dissatisfaction, resulting in chaos and a broken family. His wife, unable to bear it, had to stay at her parents’ home frequently.
What’s even more infuriating is how generous he was to his extramarital partner, buying houses, cars, and bags without hesitation, while being extremely stingy towards his wife.
Unable to endure it, his wife finally divorced him.
This year, he had a serious car accident. When taken to the hospital, relatives refused to help him, and his children didn’t want to see him. The only person who rushed to the hospital at night was his ex-wife.
However, the ex-wife was not a saint; she just wanted to see how the scumbag would face the consequences in the hospital.
As for his extramarital partner—she hung up the phone in a hurry and never showed up at the hospital. To avoid trouble, she even suggested pulling the plug and giving up.
Not everyone who gets married is the right person.
Having a marriage and a family doesn’t necessarily mean having a sense of belonging and security.
“A woman is like water. Treat her at 0 degrees, and she becomes ice; love her at 100 degrees, and she will boil; treat her at 50 degrees, and she will be lukewarm.”
How you manage your marriage will determine how your marriage responds to you.
Treating your wife well and respecting her is accumulating blessings and good fortune for yourself, a crucial investment in life.
Life is full of surprises, but the solid strength behind a family is an impenetrable barrier against all misfortunes.
No matter how bitter life may be, there will always be someone to share it with; no matter how tough life is, there will always be a light left for you.
A marital relationship is fundamentally a solemn and sacred covenant.
Once the bottom line is breached, crossing the line without authorization, choosing betrayal and escape, one must inevitably bear the consequences of breaking the vow.
In the plainness of married life, many people misunderstand the true meaning of novelty.
The novelty in marriage does not lie in pursuing different partners but in doing different things with the same person.
In reality, what threatens marriage is not the triviality and mundanity of life but the adulterer’s distorted view of marriage, lack of morals, and evasive attitude towards responsibility.
True love is about restraint and loyalty, never crossing boundaries in a lifetime, showing mutual respect and understanding.
In the marriage of two people under one roof, sharing three meals a day and the four seasons, cherishing the person in front of you and taking responsibility is the most precious and sweet happiness in life.